Do we love or hate feedback?

Do you love feedback? We may assume ‘Yes’, because we all want to learn and grow. However, the challenge is that we all have another, deeper human need – to feel competent and be accepted for who we are. Feedback often destroys that! Feedback uniquely sits at the intersection of two very deep and conflicting human needs – to grow and to be accepted. 

Some cool things about contemporary feedback practices I found:
1. People are poor at GIVING feedback – and that will never change. Instead, we should focus on teaching people how to RECEIVE feedback – after all, it’s in their own interest to distill and leverage it for their growth
2. “Will you staff Jane Doe again on your project” – is one of the most powerful but underused feedback question
3. People are genuinely open to feedback only when THEY ask for it themselves

My favorite feedback implementation? Zoom – immediate and simple!